झरोखे
Monday, April 20, 2026
"The Perfect Injury, That Disappeared Overnight"
Saturday, April 18, 2026
Respect that was earned
After finishing my MBBS, I joined a government hospital as a Junior Resident. Long hours, chaotic duties, and a salary that barely matched the effort, but I was proud of what I was doing.
One day, I went to a family function. A distant relative, very well settled businessman type, looked at me and asked,
“Doctor ho? Achha hai, but private practice kab shuru karoge? Government job mein kya rakha hai?”
I smiled and said, “Sir, abhi toh learning phase hai.”
He chuckled and said loudly so everyone could hear,
“Learning se ghar nahi chalta beta, earning bhi zaroori hoti hai.”
That line stayed with me.
Years passed. I continued my work, built my experience, and slowly established myself.
One night, around 2 AM, I was on emergency duty.
A patient was rushed in, critical condition, breathless, family panicking.
And leading that panic was the same relative.
The “earning bhi zaroori hai” uncle.
He saw me, recognized me instantly, and held my hand,
“Doctor saab, please, meri wife ko bacha lo.”
No sarcasm. No advice. Just fear.
We managed the case. Stabilized her. She recovered.
Next morning, he came to thank me. Quiet, respectful, almost emotional.
No lecture this time.
Just one sentence,
“Beta, tum jo kar rahe ho, bahut bada kaam kar rahe ho.”
That day, after years of hearing people measure success in money,
I realised something very simple.
Respect comes quietly, but only after time does its job.
And since then, whenever someone asks me,
“Government job mein kya rakha hai?”
I just smile.
Because some answers don’t need to be spoken.
Moral
Time teaches better than arguments, and life has a perfect way of correcting people silently.
Friday, March 6, 2026
शहर में गांव
मनी ऑर्डर वाली होली
Tuesday, March 3, 2026
एक सवाल, एक इंतज़ार
Thursday, February 26, 2026
Lion and the Monkey
Sunday, November 2, 2025
How do I deal with pain now?
I stopped wrestling with it. Some storms can’t be pushed back, so I learned to let them pass through me instead of fighting every wave. The moment I accepted that not everything in life is negotiable, the weight began to feel lighter. Earlier, I used to hide from anything that hurt, shutting doors, distracting myself, pretending it wasn’t happening.
Now I name the moment, face it, and let it settle. Pain still arrives, but it doesn’t stay as long, and it doesn’t burn the same way.
And people who hurt me?
I realized the power they have is the power I hand over. So I stopped trying to fix everyone, or prove anything to anyone. People understand only as deeply as they’re willing to listen.
Now I watch intentions, not words. If someone can’t pause, can’t hear, can’t meet me with sincerity, I quietly step back. Detachment isn’t coldness; it’s self-respect.